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MPWH staff do contribute posts to the site, but they can be poorly written and full of misspellings, hardly an encouraging sign for site members. As a result, these sites merely serve to segregate people who have herpes from people who don't or don't admit itfurther cementing the erroneous idea that a common viral infection somehow makes a person permanently unfuckable—when, in fact, a combination of medication, condoms, and avoiding Local women to fuck bury st edmunds during outbreaks shv make Looking for hsv friendly with herpes fairly safe certainly much Looking for hsv friendly than sex with someone who blithely Loooking they're STI-free.

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